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Olga Amechi
- Graduate @ University of Lagos
Love or Money
If given an option to decide, would you choose love or money. Also, please I will really appreciate if you could give me reasons for choosing your answer, because that is what am wanting to hear most.. since it will help me greatly, to make a wiser decision, as I’m currently stock in this situation.
My boyfriend abroad is having more than enough money i can really spend and feel happy about it. But my biggest problem is, i don’t love him, I feel nothing really for him. Instead i love my boyfriend with whom am currently with, but he’s broke. Believe me, i don’t know why i love him, because i am willing to do anything for him. I don’t ever want to see a sadness in his handsome and kind face. I feel real affection for him.
But he don’t have a job, he does nothing. And i fear for my future somehow as a woman (if you’re a woman reading this, i guess you’ll understand better).
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Virgo Irinco
I think it should come together. If someone loves you and willing to give you everything, money should not be a problem. If you have love for each other but there’s no money, it will just cause problems within your relationship especially when one doesn’t help and understand what you’re going through.
Édouard Xavier
From my experience as a man, I will advise you to choose money. Because i have been in a relationship where i thought love will cover it all. But got chocked to myself.
Long story short… There’s no love, if there’s no money.
Just to say money is not everything, is easy.
but live it, live the fact. then you will understand better. So, if your boyfriend is jobless and worst of it.. he’s doing nothing, which sounds like he’s no even willing to do anything.
It’s a symptoms of a lazy man. Leave him.
A real man should hustle and feed his girlfriend/wife. Rather to be considered as a weakly over his fellow man who’s working hard and making money.
Mystikal ET0016
Love is more important than money, as per my personal opinion. However, some women have pushed a lot of men to start considering and valuing money over love.
Because 90% of we men believe that it’s so not possible to live with a woman if you don’t have money, and believe me; this ideology is really leading the trend even as i speak.
So as my personal opinion contribution to your situation, i will say you should choose the one whom you love, bearing and accepting the fact that even though he’s broke, you’ll accept to continue being with him.
Don’t take this decision today, and tomorrow you start treating him bad because he’s broke. Because some women are such a funny creature.
C O N C L U S I O N:
Don’t give the broke boy hope, if you know deep in your heart you won’t be there forever.
At the end of the day, it’s your shoe. So you know where it pains you the most, so take your time to make the right decision.
Thank you!
CHANTEL SMITH
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akanetuk
Love supersedes every other thing, seek ye first love and the rest will be added to you. Love comes with a lot of blessing which may include money, but we can’t buy love with money, but we can buy short lived pleasure with money. Love is long lasting and more fulfilling than money.
Connie\'s Yard
Love. For with all the money in the world it won’t matter if you have no one to share it with. Human beings, be it relatives, friends or your wife and kids, we are all meant to connect through love.
MENSAH TEE
LOVE CAN COMPENSATE FOR THINGS DEPENDING ON HOW THE LOVE IS DEEP A RELATIONSHIP WITH TRUE LOVE WILL ALLOW YOU TO KNOW THAT LOVE CAN STILL EXIST IN THE ABSENCE OF MONEY
Dan Justice
Why not evaluate whether you can simplify your lifestyle? Can you decrease the number of possessions you have or are seeking to acquire? If you do, you may find that you have extra time and energy for the more important things in life—helping people and serving God, who gave you all that you have.
Enelrahs Hoe
Love. If you have money, but you don’t have love. You won’t be happy.bbut if you have love , you will be motivated to work hard to earn money . So between the two, i will choose love and be happy. Living life even in its simplest form and overcoming life’s obstacles.
pretertained
Will choose love over money. Money might satisfy your needs but doesn’t guarantee happiness. Moreover people who are rich today might become poor tomorrow, and people who are poor now might become rich later. Money is something u acquire but love is natural and heavenly. Love is a powerful bond between people either family or friends. When you feel loved, you feel happy. You don’t have to be rich before you are a comfortable. Although having both is a blessing, love is still more important.
AYUK MIKE tataw
Love or money.in a relationship but are more important,but love is more important and money is extremely important in a matured relationship there both work hand to hand.in a relationship the love that lack money might not stand the test of time neither would a relationship based on money but lacking love last,so money is love in a relationship
English From Heart
I chose love in the poll. And why its easy to understand.
You are confessing your self that one is having money, but you dont feel love towrds him and one is having love but he is borke. In two of the scene you are confuse but it is easier to get your confusion clear.
When you will be sick money want take care of you, when you will be in tears money will not swipe out your tears, when your will need the hugs and kisses of comfort and emotional support it cant be bought buy money. So follow your heart, be supportive to your broke bf, and he will get back to his feet. Trust in your love.
Zilpa Kinuthia
Both will do for me for if I have love and no money it’s not easy to stay focused on it when you have bills waiting on you to pay and if I have money with no love then my mind becomes frustrated so both would do for me
Arfe
Peace. The rest will come. But if to choose I would go with love. And not because is the only thing that matters or because money cant buy love…because it gives us strength to get out there and take all we want by force. To fight. To conquer. And it doesn’t need to be romantic man and woman love. Genuinely love supportive love unconditional love…love is equal to strength. So if you are in love and you are feeling week and powerless as many music portraits love…you ain’t in love. Love empowers you.
Shazia Naz
if money and love both comes together so it will be awesome,but it does not always happen.
if not choose love,because love can not be purchased by money.
Abdul Jafari
Follow the MONEY.
Love will not put food in your table my dear. It’s so hard to live in poverty.
Tyn
I’d choose love because money comes and goes but true love is one thing that will stay forever.
I’d choose love because with love I can build a home, future and money we will get it together with my true love.
Love is more important than money? Have you met poor people? If love was all you needed to be happy in life then the poor would be the happiest, most content people on the planet.
Love is endless? Ever heard of divorce?
Love is not all sweet and rosy and filled with happily ever afters. Wake up and smell the coffee. You have to differentiate between fantasy and reality.
Money makes the world go round.
You need to balance the two. Because as much as love is important, so is money.
Love is important. Don’t ever think it’s’ not. But don’t think for a second you can survive in this century, in this world, only on love with ZERO money.
Betafo Kingsley
Money because money brings love but love alone can not bring money
Bakoma Hanricharms
Love is just emotions that can’t put needs on table I prefer money because with maximum needs satisfaction emotions must grow