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Hules Catherine
- Writer | Mother of 2 (TSMA Manager)
Should i leave my husband for cheating
Can someone please share his or her opinion with me? I’m having a situation where my husband has the attitude to cheat on me without a single self conscience whether i know about his affairs or not.
What i mean is, he cheats on me as he likes without giving a damn about how i feel inside. The hardest part for me is, we have a child already and i see it so hard for me if i should leave him.
I;m really so confused and will greatly appreciate your opinions.
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Emilia Ayuan
These simply shows he doesn’t love you, talk less of respecting you.
I will advise if you seek for happy life, then that husband of yours is not in the position to give you that happiness you’re perhaps seeking for.
This is so sad to know some men are still cruel at this extend of the 21 century. Men are just something else you can never predict. That’s why i always and always advise all my female friends to hold tide unto their boyfriends or husbands who’re faithful to them.
Sorry my dear Hules Catherine, i really feel pity for you. For i know how this hurts.
I will advise you leave him, if truly he’s treating you that bad.
That’s just my opinion though.
Aaron Harley
I personally would not advise you to leave your husband for any reason. A marriage is more than what it seems to be, “to many people”. No relationship nor marriage is perfect. Don’t be fulled by what you watch on the TV, other lives, and so on.
Rather, I will advise you call your husband with the sweetest name you know he will melt in your melody. And know what his problem is, then this will give you a wider knowledge on how to sort things out, and arrange your marriage. No man is perfect. We’re all trying to be. “All humans”.
Sushant Jain
Hi Rebecca, I would suggest you to not to take such a step without first giving a chance to a person to explain. There may be some confusion. It’s always better to workout for a problem than leaving the question. Anyways you don’t have to loose anything you can leave her at a later stage also but if you will talk with him and tell him about your feelings it might turnaround in a better way.
The stoic philosopher
Leave him now! Don’t say i didn’t warn you if you don’t. Such a person will never change and it will get worse. Do what is in your best interest and for your child. You have you life ahead of you and with time you can find a better more deserving partner.
Matshidiso Perkins
If you can find one that wont cheat on you, then yes you can leave the present one. Some men cheat, not because they do not love their present partners, but the do it because it is in their nature to do so. It is like an epidemic, they wont just stop. Besides, women they cheat with are co-partners in the crime. They are available and willing to date men who are already taken. Is it because there are more women than men on earth(as stated by statistics)? Are you willing to leave your husband so that he can freely date the woman he’s been cheating with? Did he say that he does not love you anymore and wants to leave you? Most of the husbands that cheat, usually just want a little bit of tartar on the side, but will never leave their wives. Just as he got bored with you and cheated, he will also get board with the mistress and return back to you. Do not leave your husband, the two of you have a responsibility to take care of the family you have started. Be the strong one as women always are, it will pass! Your husband married you, because he loved you. Be strong, and build your family. God created a rock when He created a woman! Do not be moved by dusty winds. Stand by your man and stick with him, he is a bit weak for now, and will recover with time. Be his strength and stand by him. The dusty winds will soon pass.
Arfe
Why are you confused? Knowing what are you feeling and most important how this is making you feel? You may not even be a the decision stage yet. Hey, I am not saying is ok to cheat,,, it is not. But ask yourself what is it that you want. In your marriage? Divorce? I got news for you, no kid will feel guilty or responsible for your misery after knowing you spent days of torture just not to break a family. They will perpetuate that in their families and that deae is something I am sure you dont want right?
Now, if you feel like us too much, list all you have done to make the scenario change? When it started what happened who said what…and think what could have been done differently and get some answers. Do some thinking just.
People will tell you to go that that is a lack of respect. And they are right. Its disgusting. And I love him and the power of love only you can tell.
pinkbeauty
My answer is Yes. You should leave him. Do you want your child growing up in a toxic relationship, thinking its okay to cheat on your spouse because “my dad did it”. Not to mention that your husband does not respect you, what if he has a kid with another women?
People only realize what they have lost until its gone. Become financially stable and leave him. He will realize what he did was wrong and then you will be in charge of the relationship.
There is a child involved and you have to protect your kid, cheaters sometimes become abusive in order to compensate their infidelity. Do you want your child to grow up in an abusive household?
My dear, please leave. Get yourself someone who loves and respects you and your child so that you can be happy again.
James lakish
No, Men, have natural edges to spread their seeds to other women. I’m not saying this because I’m a man but just how it is. You see when you’re a good man who cares for your family. other ladies who want the same would always come your way to seduce you and you’re more appealing to women when you’re already in a relationship with another lady. so is hard to control our edges naturally, yet many women give us attention. So in the right sense, it is your responsibility to keep your man and keep him tamed. Know that, you always fighting your man is not good, When he can’t find comfort in your arms, he would follow his edges into ruining your relationship.
Tyn
Wow okay, I get how you feel and it might seem easier said than done but you have to leave that relationship. Your husband doesn’t care how you feel and doesn’t seem to respect you.
I have to say this that the relationship you’re in is toxic and I know it’ll be hard to leave the relationship especially that you have a child with him but it’s better to get out now for your own and your child’s sake. It’s okay to be selfish it’s self love
AYUK MIKE tataw
That question is for yourself, asked yourself if you’re fine cheating in your relationship and if the relationship is fine with you,or if you’re happy with the relationship, if you’re happy with the relationship forgive him and accept him back but if not think of what to do an move on with your life…but if you do love your relationship that much forgive him…
English From Heart
I think the answer to this question is you already know. But the thing which may be stopping you is your child. But my dear let me tell you, your child is not going to get any better from this relation. He is cheating on you without considering how you feel or how much pain you are in, it already shows that he is not considering the child also before doing such things. And if you will still bear everything and will live with him, your child is going to get affected very bad emotionally, dont stay with him not only for your sake but for your child’s better future also.
Bakoma Hanricharms
My answer is no .for any cheat must have a reason for cheating.though it may be difficult to fine it .but try your best to know his reason so you can tackle the reason through that means this can stop
Zilpa Kinuthia
A question you need to ask your self despite the cheating are you happy in your relationship?? If your happy forgive and move forward if your not happy then think about your next move for you can’t stay with someone for the kid. If your not happy in your marriage even the child won’t be happy
Shazia Naz
No u do not leave him,
try to know why is he so,
ask him what is the issue,discuss with him friendly and with love.
Betafo Kingsley
No is not good to leave your husband because he is cheating on you just keep on advivcing to not be doing such an act