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They said we cannot keep secrets from our spouses once we married. However I know a secret about someone from our family very closed to both of us. Like a very deep and dark secrets that its bearing me out and I never thought I would feel like telling anyone until I got married and I felt like I could just share everything with him. However I dont feel like I should because it is not my secret at all. I mean…I helped keeping it a secret for many years. One thing though…my husband is a very honest and kind person…I am afraid he wont be able to keep it a secret cause it involves lying to someone and holding the truth.
I feel like I shouldn’t tell him. But I also feel like it’s too much to handle all my self.
What do I do?
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Mystikal ET0016
If you said, its not your secret.
That means it has absolutely nothing to do with you in person. Hence, I will say don’t tell your husband, because if you do, “offcourse it has nothing to do with you, so it won’t be of any disaster to you”, but what if your friend by now perhaps is also married.
Then after exposing it to your husband, it then happens somehow and destroys your friend’s marriage, how will you feel about that? That definitely means you’ve betrayed a friend.
So if you ask my opinion?. I will say don’t tell.
Let your friend use his or her mouth to air out her deeds. And set herself free.
Aaron Harley
Yes. Tell him.
After all, whats there? Just as you’ve said its passed. So it’s old story. 🙂
Arfe
Actually its consequences are still to be seen every day. Just that no one knows…
Zubeyr
In my opinion it’s better to keep it for yourself. It’s secret what’s the point of telling another person to that secret.
In this world we have problem if understanding the word “secret” something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others.
So why we tell others to our secret?.
What they don’t know can’t hurt you
pinkbeauty
If the secret is already negatively impacting another person, then maybe you should tell him, but if it’s something which is not affecting anyone else then don’t tell him as you may bring up something which should have been forgotten.
Bakoma Hanricharms
No is not advisable to tell him all secret you know because some secret can be bad to hear most especially the one that concerns an act of cheat this can be so aggressive to him .where by it can coused alot of problems in your home and if is not well handle it can tear you apart
AYUK MIKE tataw
No,not all secret are suppose to be told,if you really like your relationship with the person you have to keep the secret for yourself,because once it’s told it no more a secret… So for my own opinion not all secret are suppose to be told if you truly love the person keep it to yourself..
sbasamoah
Yes please. His reactions can be better managed when you tell him, but if he finds out himself,all hell is going to break loose. I’m sure you don’t want that so just tell him